School can be down right exhausting for kids, which is why we have collated these 60 calm down activities for kids. It’s your go-to guide for after school strategies when you sense your child is feeling overwhelmed and in need of some relaxation.
Many kids hold their emotions together all day and let loose with tears and tantrums when they get in the car or walk through the front door. Sound familiar? It’s got a name – ‘after school restraint collapse’, where our kids just cannot hold it together anymore. Take it as a compliment though – you are a trusted and loving presence, so your child feels safe to let go of his or her stored emotions.
Here are a collection of tried and tested practical calm down activities for kids that might help to prevent meltdowns in your home as your child decompresses after school. Many of these ideas work to calm kids down (and parents ;)) because they relax the parasympathetic nervous system and provide sensory integration. As a bonus, they are fun too!
Try These Calm Down Activities For Kids When They Get Home From School
Jump on the trampoline
Play on the swings
Play with playdough
Make oobleck – combine 1.5 cups cornflour with 1 cup water in a bowl or tray, with food colouring if you wish.
Play in the sandpit
Drawing or painting
Ride on rocking horse or outdoor toy
Play on a see-saw
Heavy work activities, such as digging in the garden, pushing chairs, kneading bread dough, lifting shopping bags or raking leaves.
Have a crunchy snack, such as carrot sticks and apple
Suck on a lollipop
Listen to music and dance
Stretch and pull resistance exercise bands
Diffuse essential oils
Provide a large exercise ball to bounce or lay on
Scrape out a frozen popper
Water the plants
Name 5 favourite things
Listen to an audio book in the car on the way home
Play with and pat a cat or dog
A firm hug
Climb a tree
Drink cold water
Hang upside down on play equipment
Eat an iceblock (natural flavours and colours)
Take a relaxing walk around the Rhododendron Gardens in Blackheath
Eat or suck on frozen fruit, like strawberries
Use a bubble tea straw to blow bubbles in the bath or push a ping pong ball around
Have a warm shower or bubble bath
Fill a doona with pillows or foam and use it as a crash mat in the trampoline
Push against a wall
Animal walks such as crab walks, frog jumps or bear walks
Squeeze a toy, pillow or stress ball
Cartwheels and handstands
Touch things around your home and garden with different textures
Deep, slow breathing
Close eyes or wear sunglasses
Paint with water on the deck or pavement outside
Go for a bushwalk
Drink warm milk
Wrap up tightly in a favourite blanket
Hand or foot massage with scented lotion
Watch a lava lamp
Play with a Stretch Armstrong doll
Make a picture or just play with Wikki Stix or pipe cleaners
Buy sensory toys from Kmart to create a home sensory box, including sticky and stretchy animals, play dough, water snake, hand therapy balls, sticky hands, putty, slime etc.
Play with kinetic sand
Make natural slime – 1 tablespoon psyllium husk, 1 cup water, food colouring, scent it if you wish, with perppermint essence, for example. Whisk together and microwave for 5 minutes. Warning: the slime is very hot straight out of the microwave, so let it cool well before children play with it.
Draw with chalk on a chalk board or on the pavement
Draw on a white board
Tidy up clutter or mess before the kids get home
Go for a bike ride
Play an instrument
Sit in a quiet space and read
This list of calm down activities for kids is by no means exhaustive and there are surely many more that could be added. Particular activities might suit some kids more than others but it is a matter of finding out what works for your child. Just remember to listen to your child, validate his or her feelings and breathe. When your child releases all of those feelings at home, it isn’t easy, but they are trusting you and feeling safe.
Please let us know in the comments if any of these strategies worked for you or if you have any further ideas.