
School can be exhausting for children, often resulting in meltdowns and big emotions. After using all of their energy to listen to the teacher, follow rules, manage social expectations and friendships, it’s no wonder kids let it all out with their safe person at the end of the school day.
This collection of 60 calm down activities for kids is our go-to guide for after school strategies when you sense your child is feeling overwhelmed and in need of some relaxation.
Many kids hold their emotions together all day and let loose with tears and tantrums when they get in the car or walk through the front door. Sound familiar? It’s got a name – ‘after school restraint collapse’, where our kids just cannot hold it together anymore. Be reassured – you are a trusted, supportive and loving presence, so your child feels safe to let go of his or her pent up emotions.
Here are a collection of tried and tested practical calm down activities for kids that may help to prevent meltdowns in your home as your child decompresses after school. Many of these ideas work to calm kids down (and parents too) because they relax the parasympathetic nervous system and provide sensory integration. As a bonus, they are fun too!

Try These Calm Down Activities For Kids When They Get Home From School
Before starting homework or asking a thousand questions about their day, let’s allow our children to have some downtime. What they need may change from day to day and could include a physical activity or something more relaxing. It could be some time alone or time with you or a friend.
Here are our tips to
calm the nerves after a big day:
Jump on the trampoline
Play on the swings
Play with playdough (even better if it is scented, with lavender for example)
Make oobleck – combine 1.5 cups cornflour with 1 cup water in a bowl or tray, with food colouring if you wish.
Play in the sandpit
Drawing or painting

Ride on rocking horse or outdoor toy
Play on a see-saw
Heavy work activities, such as digging in the garden, pushing chairs, kneading bread dough, or raking leaves.
Have a crunchy snack after school, such as carrot sticks and apple
Chewing gum
Suck on a lollipop
Blow bubbles

Listen to music and dance
Stretch and pull resistance exercise bands
Diffuse essential oils
Gargle water
Provide a large exercise ball to bounce or lay on
Scrape out a frozen popper
Water the plants
Name 5 favourite things
LEGO
Listen to an audio book in the car on the way home
Play with and pat a cat or dog
A firm hug
Climb a tree
Drink cold water
Hang upside down on play equipment

Eat an iceblock (natural flavours and colours)
Take a relaxing walk around a quiet garden
Eat or suck on frozen fruit, like strawberries
Use a bubble tea straw to blow bubbles in the bath or push a ping pong ball around
Have a warm shower or (supervised) bubble bath
Fill a doona with pillows or foam and use it as a crash mat in the trampoline
Push against a wall
Animal walks such as crab walks, frog jumps or bear walks
Colour in
Squeeze a toy, pillow or stress ball
Cartwheels and handstands

Touch things around your home and garden with different textures
Deep, slow breathing
Close eyes or wear sunglasses
Paint with water on the deck or pavement outside
Go for a bushwalk

Drink warm milk
Wrap up tightly in a favourite blanket
Hand or foot massage with scented lotion
Watch a lava lamp
Play with a Stretch Armstrong doll
Make a picture or just play with Wikki Stix or pipe cleaners
Buy sensory toys to create a home sensory box, including sticky and stretchy animals, play dough, water snake, hand therapy balls, sticky hands, putty, slime etc.
Play with kinetic sand

Draw with chalk on a chalk board or on the pavement
Draw on a white board
Tidy up clutter or mess before the kids get home to create a calm, orderly environment
Go for a bike ride
Play an instrument
Sit in a quiet space and read

This list of calm down activities for kids is by no means exhaustive and there are surely many more that could be added. Particular activities might suit some children more than others but it is a matter of finding out what works for your child and figuring out what they may need from day to day.
Let’s remember to listen to our kids with empathy, validate their feelings and avoid disciplining them for unwanted behaviours when we know that they are feeling overwhelmed. When your child releases all of those big feelings at home, it isn’t easy, but they are trusting you and feeling safe.
Parents, here are some strategies for you to do at home if you are in need of some calming down after a stressful day.
Please let us know in the comments if any of these strategies worked for you or if you have any other ideas that work for your child.
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